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slytherinlock:

❝”All the world will be your enemy,

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prince of a thousand enemies.

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and when  they catch you,

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they will kill you.

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But first they must catch you;

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digger,

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listener,

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runner,

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prince with the swift warning.

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be cunning,

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and full of tricks,

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and your people will never be destroyed. ❞

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foreveralone-forevertogether:

huffingtonpost:

When did doing something ‘like a girl’ become an insult?

Watch the full Always commercial that seeks to answer this question.

Please, everyone, watch this video. It is so important and I guarantee you won’t regret it.

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bonus:

One of the best feelings is knowing that you’re wanted. Knowing that someone wants to talk to you, wants to know how you’re doing, wants to se you. Whether they pick up the phone to send you a quick text or stop by your house to catch up, someone or something reminded them of you specifically. It just feels really nice to know that you’ve been on someone’s mind and that they care enough to let you know that.

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I’d get married in this

I’d get married in this

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I’d tattoo this

I’d tattoo this

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Trying to plan a trip to cali for late august early september…my credit card is being stupid though and won’t let me book a flight with my points unless my points cover the entire cost. Wtf. Stupid.

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lol-post:

bear pushing a shiphttp://lol-post.tumblr.com/

Polars bears, forever misunderstood. They don’t wanna be effed with but they’ll help if u need a hand

lol-post:

bear pushing a ship
http://lol-post.tumblr.com/

Polars bears, forever misunderstood. They don’t wanna be effed with but they’ll help if u need a hand

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littlevirtue:

Marlon Brando’s ‘Rebel Without a Cause’ screen test. [X]

way too attractive

why i can’t…..

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Butt so glorious it glows. #mildbuttobsession #glowinthebutts

Butt so glorious it glows. #mildbuttobsession #glowinthebutts

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sitting in a coffee shop and these teenagers are playing an obnoxious card game. they keep slapping the table and yelling/laughing. i just came here to write a fucking stupid poem and they’re invading my life. 

GO HOME CHILDREN

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A thought experiment: Imagine how people might react if Taylor Swift released an album made up entirely of songs about wishing she could get back together with one of her exes.

We’d hear things like: “She can’t let go. She’s clingy. She’s irrational. She’s crazy.” Men would have a field day comparing her to their own “crazy” exes.

Yet when Robin Thicke released “Paula” – a plea for reconciliation with his ex-wife Paula Patton disguised as an LP — he was called incoherent, obsessed, heartfelt and, in particular, creepy.

But you didn’t hear men calling him “crazy” — even though he used it as the title of one of tracks.

No, “crazy” is typically held in reserve for women’s behavior. Men might be obsessed, driven, confused or upset. But we don’t get called “crazy” — at least not the way men reflexively label women as such.

“Crazy” is one of the five deadly words guys use to shame women into compliance. The others: Fat. Ugly. Slutty. Bitchy. They sum up the supposedly worst things a woman can be.

WHAT WE REALLY MEAN BY “CRAZY” IS: “SHE WAS UPSET, AND I DIDN’T WANT HER TO BE.”

“Crazy” is such a convenient word for men, perpetuating our sense of superiority. Men are logical; women are emotional. Emotion is the antithesis of logic. When women are too emotional, we say they are being irrational. Crazy. Wrong.

Women hear it all the time from men. “You’re overreacting,” we tell them. “Don’t worry about it so much, you’re over-thinking it.” “Don’t be so sensitive.” “Don’t be crazy.” It’s a form of gaslighting — telling women that their feelings are just wrong, that they don’t have the right to feel the way that they do. Minimizing somebody else’s feelings is a way of controlling them. If they no longer trust their own feelings and instincts, they come to rely on someone else to tell them how they’re supposed to feel.

Small wonder that abusers love to use this c-word. It’s a way of delegitimizing a woman’s authority over her own life.

Most men (#notallmen, #irony) aren’t abusers, but far too many of us reflexively call women crazy without thinking about it. We talk about how “crazy girl sex” is the best sex while we also warn men “don’t stick it in the crazy.” How I Met Your Mother warned us to watch out for “the crazy eyes” and how to process women on the “Crazy/Hot” scale. When we talk about why we broke up with our exes, we say, “She got crazy,” and our guy friends nod sagely, as if that explains everything.


Except what we’re really saying is: “She was upset, and I didn’t want her to be.”

Many men are socialized to be disconnected from our emotions — the only manly feelings we’re supposed to show are stoic silence or anger. We’re taught that to be emotional is to be feminine. As a result, we barely have a handle on our own emotions — meaning that we’re especially ill-equipped at dealing with someone else’s.

That’s where “crazy” comes in. It’s the all-purpose argument ender. Your girlfriend is upset that you didn’t call when you were going to be late? She’s being irrational. She wants you to spend time with her instead of out with the guys again? She’s being clingy. Your wife doesn’t like the long hours you’re spending with your attractive co-worker? She’s being oversensitive.

As soon as the “crazy” card is in play, women are put on the defensive. It derails the discussion from what she’s saying to how she’s saying it. We insist that someone can’t be emotional and rational at the same time, so she has to prove that she’s not being irrational. Anything she says to the contrary can just be used as evidence against her.

More often than not, I suspect, most men don’t realize what we’re saying when we call a woman crazy. Not only does it stigmatize people who have legitimate mental health issues, but it tells women that they don’t understand their own emotions, that their very real concerns and issues are secondary to men’s comfort. And it absolves men from having to take responsibility for how we make others feel.

In the professional world, we’ve had debates over labels like “bossy” and “brusque,” so often used to describe women, not men. In our interpersonal relationships and conversations, “crazy” is the adjective that needs to go.

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— Men really need to stop calling women crazy - Harris O’Malley (via hello-lilianab)

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lionessclub:

"men have unrealistic expectations to live up to, too! women will make fun of men with small penises!"

  1. that was a standard invented by men which is based on an incorrect understanding of how female sexuality works
  2. stop shooting yourself in the foot and then blaming women

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"Write the kind of story you would like to read. People will give you all sorts of advice about writing, but if you are not writing something you like, no one else will like it either."

— Meg Cabot  (via fictionwritingtips)

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"Vampire spider scorpion hybrid…" thoughts on exploding spiders @very_gooster   #thatsathing #buffalochicken #explodingspiders

"Vampire spider scorpion hybrid…" thoughts on exploding spiders @very_gooster #thatsathing #buffalochicken #explodingspiders

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My siblings on the left and on the right Mia Thermopolis before her princess makeover. #princessdiaries #ericvondettonwhereareyou

My siblings on the left and on the right Mia Thermopolis before her princess makeover. #princessdiaries #ericvondettonwhereareyou